Vienna to Bangkok

Our original route home had us routed through Vienna, so we elected to add a couple of day stopover. You can’t turn around in the old center of town without seeing another amazing church, statue or building dating back to Vienna’s heyday. I’m pretty sure I’d seen slides of these sights in high school German class, but of course back then I couldn’t appreciate them. Seeing slides today would also be rather dull, as compared to experiencing them in 360 degrees of reality.

Melissa has a print of a Gustav Klimmt painting. It was never my favorite. There were no fewer than ten museums in Vienna celebrating his anniversary. We managed to see two, and so gained an appreciation for his story and work. Like many great artists of his time, he was part of an artistic movement – the seccessionists (think Craftsman or Arts and Crafts style, but 10-15 years earlier). Three days was hardly enough time to appreciate Vienna, but it was well worth stopping. We were able to see another great city and connect with the Austrian friends we made in Nicaragua. Reading newspapers is one thing – hearing the real world perspective of Europeans on the ‘Grexit’ is quite another.

The first impressions of a place are often the most vivid – being overwhelmed with sights, sounds, smells and the overall pace of life. In this regard Bangkok did not disappoint. It is busy, crowded, balmy, gritty, chaotic and yet strangely calm and relaxing. It’s also amazingly cheap. We’re already excited about our adventures here, and we’ve hardly even started. It seems like we needed to come here, like we’re not quite ready to come home.

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The missing mojo

We left Dubrovnik around 11am on Friday, hoping to catch the 13:00 ferry. It was hardly an early start, but hey, we’re on vacation after all. Owing to road construction and border crossings (the Croatian coastline is interrupted by about 10km of Bosnia-Herzogovina) we missed the ferry by about 15 minutes. So we relaxed in the small town of Drvenik and waited four hours for the next ferry. It was hardly a difficult wait, eating seafood, drinking local white wine and soaking up some Adriatic sunshine.

The ferry crossing took only 30 minutes, plus about another half an hour for loading (waiting) and unloading. Soon we were speeding along the steep and winding two lane road from the far south end of Hvar island to the North end. This is a wild, bucolic, beautiful island, with many, many small vineyards, olive groves, villages and vegetable patches. The road is barely wide enough for two cars – in places not at all. In many places the drop-offs are frighteningly steep. After more than an hour of bouncing along in third gear, Melissa has had enough and declares that we won’t be coming back this way. What the road lacked in the way of guardrails, shoulders and smooth pavement, it made up for with spectacular views of the green, rocky hillsides, blue skies and sparkling waters all around us. Hvar is a long, narrow island, with one prominent, high ridge flanked by many valleys full of red soil framing green cultivated plants and wildflowers – red poppies, yellow daises and so on. There are a few small tractors but mostly the plots are worked by hand and small roto-tillers. Farmers define a weed as a plant out of place. Those wildflowers may look nice, but not in your corn field. The same thing goes for thistles in your pasture. By this definition Hvar may not have a single weed – everything looks arranged. In between rows of olive trees you might see grape vines, and in between those you might find potatoes.

We arrived in Hvar town close to dusk. Like so many of the Mediterranean towns we’ve seen, it is a beautiful old town below a hilltop castle. We found lodging with a friendly, talkative, energetic grey-mustached fellow named Luka. This man is the Croatian counterpart to Melissa’s dad. He can’t seem to sit still, and goes out of his way to make you feel at home.

After finishing an excellent meal of fresh seafood and Dalmatian beef, three guys carried a yellow-fin tuna through the restaurant and into the kitchen. This beautiful fish was bigger than Melissa.

There are many beautiful islands to visit in Croatia. We were drawn to Hvar by the prospect of climbing some limestone cliffs. OK, I was drawn by the climbing…but this island also has shops, restaurants, old towns and beautiful coastline for my better half. I only have my rock shoes with me. That is all I need for bouldering, and on Hvar they have the deep water variety. You can climb higher with no rope because of the soft water landing. There is also plenty of roped climbing.

I searched online for a climbing partner. Only one guy responded – a local named ‘Rocky’. I had inadvertently contacted him with Melissa’s email, so he might have expected to climb with ‘persephone’ instead of Preston. We finally connected on skype and made plans to meet at 14:30. Melissa and I headed out for a quick lunch (other than travel days we very rarely rush anything) by the small port full of yachts, sailboats and small fishing boats. When we got back Rocky had to cancel because he had to pick up his brother at the ferry. Life on these islands revolves around these ferry schedules, and they don’t travel often outside of the summer months. He asked if tomorrow was an option. I didn’t have a ton of motivation to head to the cliffs alone, and told him tomorrow morning would be the best bet. Melissa and I hadn’t really seen the town yet during the daytime.

The next day, Rocky was nowhere to be found. We got a late start, owing to having a good time the night before. I could feel that I didn’t have good energy. I was nervous, anxious about catching the ferry, frustrated, etc. The mental aspect of climbing is often the most challenging and rewarding part. Anxiety, frustration, anger, hesitation, doubt, fear…these do not form the emotional foundation for a good day climbing rocks.

I dropped Melissa off in Stari Grad, one of the oldest cities in Dalmatia and all of Europe. It was right around 12:30. The road to my destination, The village of Sveta Nedilja, took me up more narrow, winding, ancient roads, through incredibly picturesque villages, fields and orchards. From a distance it looked like the road might follow a cleft up and over the main central ridge. The road wound higher and higher through the trees until I came to a one lane tunnel. There were some instructions I couldn’t understand about the correct and incorrect way through, and a non functioning stoplight. Looking ahead I saw taillights and went for it. Inside the tunnel seemed barely big enough for my rented Volkswagen. Weak headlights provided the only, inadequate illumination. The first section had a lot of running water, with puddles hiding deep potholes. This would not be a fun place to meet an oncoming car. The length of the tunnel on such a sparsely populated island surprised me. There is an overland route (dirt road) to the other side of the island, after all.

Finally emerging on the other side, I was once again stunned by the isolation and beauty of this island, right in the middle of densely populated Europe, where wilderness barely exists. Overhead the ridge formed many cliff faces of clean grey rock – climbing country. Just below these cliffs, and running all the way down steep hillsides to the ocean, the vineyards began. This farmland is so steep, remote, wild and magnificent…I wouldn’t believe it possible had I not seen it firsthand. The road turned northwest, winding through several villages and steep bowls of valleys before I reached the dead-ends of my destination. The last half kilometer was a rough trail along the beaches and rocky coastline. Imagine my surprise at finding yet more vines and olive trees here, just above the ‘treeline’ formed by high tides and storm. Like many plots in Dalmatia, Someone had laboriously built rock terraces one stone at a time. It’s no exaggeration to call The wine produced here a labor of love.

By 13:30 I had finally arrived. I had only two hours before I would have to turn around to meet Melissa, catch the ferry and start the long journey back to Dubrovnik. So there I was, literally half way around the world, on a beautiful sunny day, looking at amazing cliffs right along the Adriatic. I hesitated and paused, trying to gain the requisite composure and intention. I looked around a little, walked around a little, and eventually put on my climbing shoes. It felt good to move over the rock, but I wasn’t relaxed. In theory the prospect of falling into the beautiful blue water was inviting…but I didn’t feel like falling. We had yet to swim in these waters, as they were not quite warm enough. I sat down to take stock of the situation. I’d come a long way to climb these particular rocks. Several times I started out again, and balked. In those moments of hesitation, I heard my friends back home shouting encouragement: “you got it!” “nice ptown!”. Inside my head, their support was falling on deaf ears. I was thinking too much about my weak body, the cold water, the trip home. Athletes talk about being in the ‘zone’, when the mind is quieted and the body takes over – muscle memory, training, will, mojo. I had no mojo! thought about how different things would be if my friends were there. I thought about what a mess I’d be in if I managed to injure myself just then. I took off my shoes, took in the scenery, talked briefly to a couple from Salt Lake City, and left early.

From this experience I was reminded of the importance of climbing partners. In theory I didn’t need partners to deep water solo, but I really felt y’all’s absence.

To add insult to injury, we lost our camera on the same island where my mojo showed up missing. We lost three days of (spectacular) photos, and we really liked that camera.

Paris is for hipsters

This is the other half of preston marries melissa. Note; You may not see words like “ubiquitous” or “traverse”in my posts, but may experience some vocabulary such as “awesome”and “stinkin’ cute” ( my personal fav); as well as I enjoy smiley faces. Also, I am not as mushy as my counterpart, but am extremely happy that one of us is that way. In this post I will attempt to clear up some myths about Paris. Let me know what you think!

Isn’t it every girls dream to go to Paris? The correct answer is “yes”. It is supposed to be the city of romance and the Eiffel Tower; a city to enjoy with your significant other. Not! I believe that Paris is a true city person’s city and if you are not the latter than you should not go as it will not be an enjoyable experience . I had the extremely fortunate experience of being able to separate from my adoring husband ( a non city person) who does not enjoy big cities ( at all) and be joined by my city travel and one of my best friends in the universe, Colleen, while my sporty husband connected with his friend Mathias for a skiing adventure in Switzerland. Colleen has been to Paris many times, speaks French, loves baguettes, other French food, wine, dancing, and I really believe may be the only person who loves the Paris metro; especially the crazy Chatelet stop…ugh! :)

Our trip began by flying from Barcelona to Paris, connecting to the RER and after about a 2 1/2 hour journey ( it seemed like 8 hours) from the airport complicated by a new fancy backpack for me purchased by Preston ( argh, bad idea bears) and finally ended in the Marais district in the cold rain of beautiful Paris. Now, Colleen jetlagged and me sick with a nasty cold began our journey in this gritty, but beautiful , oxymoronic city.

Paris has so much to see and do, it is truly an amazing city with cafes everywhere, the most expensive, but amazing coffee ever( 5 to 6 euros, that is like 7 bucks peeps for 6 ounces or less), delicious, stinkin’ cute macarons and subsequently very nice and friendly people who do speak English, no matter what anyone tells you. Myth number one cleared…

Another myth is that the food is good everywhere you go as well as are all the baguettes; This is not true. The food Is just like everywhere else in the world, you win some, you lose some and you may pay big bucks either way; or maybe it is because Portland and New Orleans has such delicious food that my palette is refined ;) . My favorites were Maceo for Nuevo French, Cafe Breizh for the most delicious gallette, and Semilla. Semilla is new and created by the owners of La Bouissenerie, a very well known restaurant by locals and tourists alike. For macarons and the most amazing rose, lychee, and almond croissant, try Pierre Herme, he also has locations in Tokyo and one location in London. I one day will try to recreate his awesome and creative macarons flavors like campari with pamplemousse, and chocolat w maracuya…tres magnifique! http://www.pierreherme.com/

Colleen and I do not enjoy tour buses or organized adventures, but we still managed to see the Louvre ( eww ahhh and Amazing), Luxembourg Gardens, The river Seine, Eiffel Tower, Notre Dame, Suce de Coer, St. Germain De Pres, the Latin Quarter, The Jewish Quarter, Montmarte, and every other neighborhood and quarter imaginable; note, that we did this in the rain, with rusted umbrellas bought on the streets of La Rambla, jetlagged ( Colleen) and me hocking loughies, ick ( hard to imagine, but totally true).

In conclusion, the trip consisted of eating, shopping, sightseeing, some dancing, and overall getting to experience a one of a kind city where every turn leads you to see something more stinkin’ cute than the last turn; a city filled with hipsters, funky glasses, mostly good food, excellent public transportation, and the most amazing macarons on the planet ( I have a deep love for these cookies, plus, they are stinkin’ cute). Also, people in Paris look like people in every other big city in the world; contrary to popular belief, the citizens of Paris do not look like they stepped off a runway and look more like Portlanders than fashion models. Myth number 3 BUSTED!…

Stay tuned for more posts by the female half of this blog’s namesake and possible myth bustin’ at prestonmarriesmelissa.

Cheers!

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7,000,000,000

Croatia is like that kid Peter from high school, whose last name no one could spell and few could pronounce. He was not popular or well known, he was lost in the crowd. Like most of us, he’d seen some hard times. He’d been neglected, mistreated, beat up a couple of times – even though he didn’t have much in the way of lunch money. His family had to move around a lot, and he had a big extended family.

The Croatian people number some eight and a half million. More than half live outside of Croatia. In a world of seven billion people, Croatians round to zero. Statistically speaking, it’s as if they don’t even exist.

In business, economics or science, a billion is a pretty routine number. It comes up fairly often – dollars, numbers of cells or molecules in XYZ, gallons of oil consumed every day, numbers of computing transactions every second and so on. When it comes to people, seven billion is pretty much impossible to fathom. When an entire nation doesn’t even register as a drop in the bucket, we’re talking about a very large number of people. We have shorthand ways for writing large numbers: 10 raised to the power of 23, drop zeros and express figures in ‘thousands’ or ‘millions’. These are abstract concepts. Zeroes can’t represent individuals. What would the world be like without Steve Jobs? Will Ferrell? Your loved ones?

From the broadest brush strokes of history to the nitty gritty gossip of the smallest villages, our trip has afforded us a great perspective on the human story, this crazy family of seven billion people. We’re a very imperfect family. After all this time and progress we still have war, crime, poverty and suffering. I believe ignorance and fear are among the root causes for those evils. Travel is a form of education, a way to dispel ignorance and fear of the unknown. Croatia was pretty much unknown to us before this trip. We’ve found that we love it.

It turns out that Peter was a bit of a late bloomer. He’s more popular than ever before. When I lived in Switzerland twenty years ago Croatia was embroiled in an ugly civil war. We had Croatian neighbors – refugees. Tourists are now finding Croatia in ever greater numbers, it is among the world’s top twenty destinations. Businesses that were illegal in communist Yugoslavia are thriving. Next year it will join the European union. It’s a beautiful coastal country, a garden of wine, olives, figs, vegetables and white limestone. In the old towns everything is made from limestone, in some places even the roofs. Streets, sidewalks and stairs are worn and polished from use. Boats are everywhere on the long coastline and islands. What is not limestone or farmland is covered in evergreen trees and shrubs. And there is plenty of sunshine. After a combined 16 years in Portland, Melissa and I are on a bit of a solar sabbatical. Scientists have shown that sunshine is good for our vitamin D levels, and personal experience has shown that it is good for my own happiness and well being. So is Croatia in general.

Güete Tage Leben i d’Bäärner Oberland

A few years ago my good friend Joel and I were on another climbing road trip. We’d been skiing, climbing or watching live music (chasing women) for many weekends in a row. I said something about us being on a tear, and he said “we’re living good days”. And so the term was coined, to describe what we were doing as well as the philosophy behind it. Melissa and I have been living good days (150 since we got married). We built some flexibility into our itinerary, and used it to connect with our friends Colleen and Matthias.

Colleen has known Melissa about twice as long as I have. They travel well together, and came to Barcelona in 2008. I met Matthias in 2006 when he had an internship in Portland. He joined our local climbing club (Mazamas) and we were on a couple of climbs that summer. In 2009 he was back in Portland and we tried to climb Mount Hood. We didn’t summit that day but had a great ski down.

The fun thing about hanging out with Matthias is that we speak the same three languages. We had great, long conversations about chasing women, politics, climbing, work, economics, demographics and the fate of our respective societies (Matthias is Bavarian). On the train from Grindelwald to the Jungfraujoch we met a group of five Spaniards: a mechanic, a fireman and a student from Burgos, an information technology professional from Madrid, and a policewoman from Tarragon (Catalunya). What they have in common, what we have in common, is this passion for living good days in the mountains. We played cards in the SAC huts and had long conversations with them about climbing, politics, immigration, health care, economics, the challenges facing our wealthy welfare states…and chasing women. This was the real world perspective I never got in Barcelona or elsewhere in Spain. The everyday struggles they face were not evident in the tourist attractions we frequented.

We also met a young Swiss couple who took us under their wing a little. Just when you think you’re a bad ass climber…the Swiss will come along and do the same thing on skis with the utmost humility. We had a great time learning from them and imbibing a bit of their rich culture.

A few years ago I was climbing a lot more than I do now. I was at the top of my game, in shape, focused, ‘in the zone’ as they say. I was also lonely…and busy chasing women. I would have gladly traded all that climbing for a women I could love. Now I’ve found her, and I’ve never been happier.

In the end it didn’t really matter that bad weather and considerable avalanche hazard limited our time in the mountains to four days, and only one spectacular day of good weather. Making new friends, reconnecting with old friends, traversing language barriers while avoiding crevasses…that definitely counts as living good days in my book.

Merci viel mal a myyni früündi das mir alli chöönte mitmache – isch güet gsi!!!

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The honeymoon is soooo not over…

We have learned to accept this expression about honeymoons ending, to describe the sensation of coming back to the mundane, tedious realities of life once the hustle, bustle and excitement (of the wedding) is over.  The best part of our wedding was the fact that Melissa and I had fun.  Putting on such an event can be so all-consuming that the bride and groom don´t get to enjoy themselves.  The best part of our honeymoon is the amount of time we´ve given ourselves to escape the quotidian, sobering tedium of life – the proverbial grind.

We´re having so much fun that we´ve decided to extend our trip by at least a  month to visit Thailand.

Melissa´s dad Reed came to visit in Barcelona for week and we had a grand time.  It was really neat to share our tiny apartment and this fantastic city with him.  Cajuns really know how to appreciate food, and there are few cities better than Barcelona for food.  We took a side trip to the island of Mallorca.  We enjoyed semana santa together and relaxed into everything Spain has to offer.

Today Melissa and her dear friend Colleen boarded the airport bus to Paris.  I knew I would miss my little bundle of chaos, but I didn´t know how much I would feel it until she was out of my sight.  After spending 24-7 together for almost five months, we´ve become inseparable, as it were.  I´m looking forward to our respective adventures, and to seeing my babydoll again.

 

Xocolata amb pa, oli y sal

We slipped out of Valencia on a smooth, quiet train. At 200kph the horizon receded and orchards gradually gave way to taller, darker, natural forests. The spring storm had whipped the placid Balearic Sea into a minor frenzy of whitecaps, under rain clouds heavy with dusk. We arrived in the center of Barcelona in cold, wet, darkness. When I say the center, I do mean dead center. Melissa has managed to find us some great places, generally right in the center of the scenic old towns. We´ve been doing a lot of walking.

Living out of suitcases does get old. We never planned to stay three days each in 50 cities. Barcelona is a place we planned to spend some time. We have a fourth floor apartment with access to laundry machines and what might be the smallest kitchen in the world. Five or ten of these kitchens would fit within the typical American kitchen. Our balcony looks out on the main Las Ramblas avenue, where we can look down on parades and watch the trees leaf out.

Behind us is the Bari Gotic, with history and buildings dating back to the Roman settlement of Barcino, a contemporary of Valentia. The narrow, twisted alleyways winding between buildings like caves and slot canyons offend our expectations of gridlines or plumb, square and level construction. There is a month´s worth of churches, museums and markets to see, and enough boutiqueing to keep Jim Brewer busy for at least a few days. Outside of the city center a very dense, contemporary and cosmopolitan city has grown up. There are great trails, parks and public transport – likely thanks in part to the 1992 Olympics.

We´re starting to see similarities among everywhere we´ve been in Spain. Real estate is scarce. Smoked ham and olive oil are abundant. Wine is sometimes cheaper than bottled water. With crowded streets, limited parking and 300 days a year of sunshine, motorcycles and scooters are everywhere. People are friendly and relaxed. You would not guess that this country is in such dire straits economically. What we see on the streets doesn´t exactly square with the employment and GDP data. This could be due to a number of factors: A. having never been here in good times, we have little frame of reference. B. the unemployed do not wear shirts advertising “I´m part of the 25%” C. we have spent little time outside of the busy, touristy city centers. In Barcelona the streets seem to be clogged with more tourists than locals. D. none of the above. The taxi driver explained to me that the US economy is improving because the dollar is weak, while Spain is suffering because the Euro is not. I was tempted to dismiss this opinion as that of an uninformed layman. On second thought, he probably understands things just as well as Bernanke, Draghi and all the rest of them.

We took a train to Figueres, near the border with France, to visit the Dali museum located in his birthplace. The landscape there opens up again to wheat fields, deciduous trees and green grass. We´re also spending time marveling at the works of Gaudi, a man who seemed intent on creating beauty by destroying any distinction between art, architecture and sculpture.

We are relaxing a lot and soaking up the spring sunshine. We knew traveling this long would not be easy. We built some ‘apart’ time into our plans: Melissa will go to Paris with her good friend and traveling buddy Colleen, while I´ll meet my German friend Matthias in the Berner Oberland for some quality time in the alps. We are very much looking forward to our respective adventures, and we will miss each other soon after parting. The longer we´ve been together the better we´re getting at it. We have the time to be patient, to really listen and understand one another. We´re learning how to communicate, how to live together, how to love. I think in hindsight this will prove more precious than all the pictures, memories and fantastic food.

It may seem odd or decadent to have chocolate with bread, olive oil and salt. Here it was neither. As Melissa likes to say: “now that is a delicious thing.” It reminded us of our favorite server in Portland who told us: “if you don´t like salted caramel, you´re just an asshole.” So the next time you have a chance, raise a glass to us or enjoy some salted caramel, chocolate or olive oil. We may be tired of suitcases, but having you along with us vicariously only lightens our load and makes us smile.

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